It’s inventory time! Have you taken stock of yourself?
Every end of each fiscal year, companies are required to provide interested parties with their Balance Sheet, among other financial statements. Below is a summary of the assets and liabilities of the company and how they balance each other. The Balance Sheet reveals much, most importantly, the “current health” of the company and its potential future development.
Why is this so important that it becomes part of the Companies Act to have this? Because, to grow a business, you need to plan a strategy to maximize your assets and minimize your liabilities. Let’s apply the same concept here to increase your attraction quotient (AQ)
What assets do you have, both innate and those you developed during the later stages of your growth in life? To find out, you can do the following:
1. Make a list of all your strengths and weaknesses. Circle the top 3 things you do best: your strength and the 3 things you do worst.
2. Gaze at yourself in the mirror. What is your best feature: facial and body? It could be your smile, your eyes, your hair, legs, etc.
3. Ask your close friends around you, people you have known well enough and who know you well enough to give you honest and constructive feedback. If they used 3 words to describe you, what would they be?
By doing this simple exercise, you will not only get to know yourself better, but you will also discover how the outside world perceives you. I may think that I am very fun loving, but my idea of fun can vary much more than most of my friends would agree. If the disparity is too wide, find out the reasons, correct it, and test it until they achieve the perfect results you want every time you show them.
Locate and identify your best asset. Then just play during your date. As much as the results and observation indicate, people can be drawn to just this thing, or we call the X factor about a person. Make it so strong that it leaves a deep impression on others that they won’t be able to get it out of their minds, at least not for a while.
In general, if you have a big smile, smile more. If you have a lovely pair of eyes that say a lot, shouldn’t you let your eyes do the talking with intense stares, as and when appropriate? If you have a good sense of humor, make them laugh out loud. (note: humor is another secret that I will talk more about). Are you an expert in writing? Text your date with words that make them feel so good: mobile pranks are too effective, in every conceivable and inconceivable way.
More gender specific, starting with women – if you have pretty shoulders and legs, flaunt them! Silky smooth hair, teasing curls, shiny hair. Make it even softer, more seductive and shiny. Good hair products and consistent hair care will do the trick. (If your hair is your best asset, it must have meant that you were either born with those silky locks or that you’ve spent countless trips and numerous hours visiting your stylist, so all you need is to double it closer to the date)
What you say will sound like music to their ears when you have a sweet and sensual voice. So purr accordingly. However, one point is worth mentioning. Ladies, if your best asset is being well endowed, I highly recommend that you not brandish too much for obvious reasons. Unless you have a specific target audience selected.
Are you known for your bubbly personality? Or your compassion and kind inner nature that makes you more endearing than the rest? How about your wit? Do you have a quick mind that makes “debating” with you fun and stimulating at the same time?
Men, if you are blessed with a deep, deep voice that resonates sexually, look for opportunities to compliment her. Make your friends (especially girlfriends) admire you for this boyish smile, or this manly charm, or this sensitivity towards you that makes you affable to the opposite sex, or strong arms with outlined muscles, or your astute analysis of things that they surround you. what puts you in a different class?
Get to know yourself better and love yourself more. Because, in turn, this will bring you immense benefits and results that you have always wanted, not only to attract your potential partner, but also in all aspects of your interaction with people.
Optimize your asset. Do it today!