The first question to ask yourself before embarking on any self-defense/protection program is: are you willing to use physical violence to defend yourself? This is a yes or no question. When you find yourself in a situation that becomes physical you will not have time to think about the consequences of your actions because any hesitation on your part will result in injury to you and in a matter of seconds the matter can become a matter of life and death. It’s your choice and often there are no second chances. If you’re not prepared to make the kill or be killed decision, then don’t take this route. But don’t rely on others to protect you if you become a victim and get caught.

Unfortunately, physical violence is a sick experience, sometimes it is necessary, but do not forget that it can also have consequences later. I mean the law and mentally too. Physical violence should only be initiated when all else has failed and is a last resort. The good news is that knowledge is the key. It is not good to know the theory. If you walk in the middle of the road, you will be hit by a car, so walk on the side of the road. Unless you respond to your newfound knowledge with appropriate action, then knowing becomes just as useful as not knowing. Skillful application of communication skills and a non-violent presence is a much better starting point, but you should be prepared to call on your other physical skills as well. Which means your best weapon is common sense, in other words, always use your brains before force.

Looking at the many attitudes I read about today, practitioners of the martial arts are beginning to seriously question what they are being taught. The question they are asking; Am I really doing self defense? More and more practitioners want to know why, how, where instead of just blindly following because someone tells them to do something.

I think the problem lies in the way traditional martial arts have been viewed in the past. For example; If you live in a peaceful area and have never ventured into the real world, then making your art as a way to keep fit or as a sport would be fine. However, if you wanted your art for something more practical bodyguards, security, etc. So looking for a system that gives you the best possible chance of surviving in a violent situation would be a wise choice.

Although, finding one may not be easy, because many instructors are only interested in or able to teach active young students. The result, many become discouraged or disillusioned. Women, the elderly, small or weak, those same individuals who really need help do not receive it. Therefore, before or if you are thinking of switching to more street art, you will need to look for someone who has the following characteristics. Here are some things to check before deciding where to go.

You need to find someone who is helpful, who has a positive attitude and approach to self defense, preferably who has had real life experience, not some young man who says he has 5 black belts but has no real experience in the types of problems that occur. the mean streets of today. It’s a controversial subject, but you should consider whether you want to learn self defense or just a watered down sport, it’s up to you, so make the decision to choose a side.

Stay safe.